people's chit chat

Thursday, February 16, 2012 | post a comment {0}

Two things have been on my mind today, due to conversations with people:
1) Pretending to like people when I find them annoying as fuck vs. telling them to just shut up
and
2) People who only want to hang out when a lot of people are going/there's a camera documenting every damn move that they make.

For the first one, after Lihan asked me why I pretended to like ...let's call her specimen-FC*, I kind of knew how I felt about that, but I couldn't really put it into proper words. A lot of times, I do want to tell people straight up how annoying they are, but at the same time, after doing that so many times freshman year, I've really learned how to pick and choose. As in, now I know who isn't worth my time, and who is. Although it's true, sometimes it can be tiring to refrain from bitch slapping a person every once and awhile, it's a much smaller commitment than starting a full on vendetta. (Which tends to form when you tell someone to stfu or that you don't like them) Now, if things went my way, this most certainly wouldn't happen. I would confess to them my never ending annoyance with them, they would take it like a man, and we would move on with our lives. But no. High school girls just don't work like that, and making an enemy is quite the commitment indeed. I will sacrifice maybe 5 minutes of my day to physically holding my hand down from slapping a person if it means I don't have to deal with all the full-time drama that comes with making an "enemy"

For the second one, well. That one just pisses me off. This one I can rant about for a helluva long time. Honestly...I'm so done with the people who only go to hang outs because certain other people are going, or because a lot of people are going so it's the "cool" hangout to be at. Or even worse, you only go because there will be pictures taken so it can be added to your 3402348203 tagged pictures on Facebook. Whatever happened to hanging out for the sake of hanging out? For the sake of spending time with someone... There is NOTHING wrong with having a one-on-one sleepover, or a one-on-one trip to the mall. So I don't see why when people make the time and effort to plan something out, one has to back out last minute just because they hear only 3 other people are going to such and so event. Come on. Let's try a little harder in masking our attention-whore tendencies, okay?

Damn. The less I tell people, the more I write on this blog now. All my posts as of late have been looooong o_o And full of swears. Lolz~ Good times.

Vicki

*Flat chest. LOLOLOL I'm such a bitch.