Getting close.

Tuesday, November 27, 2012 | post a comment {0}

"Oh my gosh, I like him so much. How do I talk to him?"

I. am. so. sick. of. hearing. this.

Do NOT ask me for advice on how to start talking to a guy/getting his number/having him notice you.

Do you know why? Because if you have to ask these questions, then you DO NOT like him genuinely. How can you like someone if you've never even had a good conversation with them before? Clearly, you don't even know him. So stop. Seriously.

"How come the guys I like never like me back?"

Oh ionno, maybe because they DON'T KNOW WHO YOU ARE. The last time a guy didn't like me back was in 7th grade. This is because that was the last time I had a crush on someone that I idolized, rather than someone I knew closely and liked genuinely. Coincidence? No, I really think not.

There is NOTHING wrong with you fabulous people. You just choose to attach yourself to those who will never like you back. And no, it's not because you're not pretty, interesting, funny or anything enough. So stop using that as a fucking excuse. It's because you don't know them, and they don't know you. Chances are you will never have a chance to get to know them in a natural way. And that's not your fault. It's not the other person's fault either. You guys just weren't meant to be. Simple as that. If you can't get close to each other, you weren't meant to be. If you guys get close and he doesn't like your personality, you weren't meant to be. Doesn't mean you're undesired, doesn't mean you've failed, it just means it. wasn't. meant. to. be.

Get it got it good.